Fixes#16517
Given a 3 Server cluster with at least 1 Client connected to Follower 1:
If a NodeMeta.{Apply,Read} for the Client request is received by
Follower 1 with `AllowStale = false` the Follower will forward the
request to the Leader.
The Leader, not being connected to the target Client, will forward the
RPC to Follower 1.
Follower 1, seeing AllowStale=false, will forward the request to the
Leader.
The Leader, not being connected to... well hoppefully you get the
picture: an infinite loop occurs.
