* Make cluster names SNI always
* Update some tests
* Ensure we check for prepared query types
* Use sni for route cluster names
* Proper mesh gateway mode defaulting when the discovery chain is used
* Ignore service splits from PatchSliceOfMaps
* Update some xds golden files for proper test output
* Allow for grpc/http listeners/cluster configs with the disco chain
* Update stats expectation
The clusters/endpoints test were still relying on deterministic ordering of clusters/endpoints which cannot be relied upon due to golang purposefully not providing any guarantee about consistent interation ordering of maps.
Also fixed a small bug in the connect proxy cluster generation that was causing the clusters slice to be double the size it needed to with the first half being all nil pointers.
