Fix topology view when displaying mixed connect-native/normal services. (#13023)
* Fix topoloy intention with mixed connect-native/normal services.
If a service is registered twice, once with connect-native and once
without, the topology views would prune the existing intentions. This
change brings the code more in line with the transparent proxy behavior.
* Dedupe nodes in the ServiceTopology ui endpoint (like done with tags).
* Consider a service connect-native as soon as one instance is.
Co-authored-by: Florian Apolloner <florian@apolloner.eu>
Chris S. Kim