* fix: Set size to a default value as well as timeout.
Currently, we are unable to run our `write_source_files` tests in our pre-upload checks, because we have `--test_size_filter=small`, and setting `size` will attempt to set it on both the run rule and the test rule, the former being invalid.
* code review feedback
* chore: fix one more test that should use size for defaulting
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Co-authored-by: Alex Eagle <alex@aspect.dev>
* chore: add windows binaries
* chore: fix/exclude windows brokenness
* chore: try to see why diff tests fail on windows
* fix: rm bazelisk rc again for windows
* fix: try our own diff_test
* chore: use only our own diff_test
I recently enabled --test_verbose_timeout_warnings and that caused a bunch of warnings in our build.
This fixes it, and adds a utility for us or others to make test-wrapping macros that set to short by default.